Sunday, March 28, 2010

Prisms of Love

It seems impossible to fully articulate love - such a powerful catch-all phrase, isn't it? Every once in a while, I peruse the ever-growing collection of my favorite attempts. Here are the ones that beamed me on today:

"Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead. The consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and richness to life that nothing else can bring."
~ Oscar Wilde

"But I always think that the best way to know God is to love many things."
~ Vincent van Gogh

"Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love."
~ Erich Fromm

"The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them."
~ Thomas Merton

"The most human thing we have to do in life is is to learn to speak our honest convictions and feelings and live with the consequences. This is the first requirment of love, and it makes us vulnerable to other people who may ridicule us. But our vulnerability is the only thing we can give to other people."
~ Leo F. Buscaglia

"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
~ Jalal ad-Din Rumi

"Love is not love until love's vulnerable."
~ Theodore Roethke

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love."
~ Tom Robbins

"Perhaps love is the process of my leading you gently back to yourself."
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"Love is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained."
~ C.S. Lewis

"You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover's arms can only come later when you're sure they won't laugh if you trip."
~ Jonathan Carroll

"Love is being stupid together."
~ Paul Valery

"To live in this world, you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it; and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go."
~ Mary Oliver

"Love is like seaweed; even if you have pushed it away, you will not prevent it from coming back."
~ Nigerian Proverb

"Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls."
~ Kahlil Gibran

"You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; in just the same way, you learn to love by loving."
~ Anatole France

"The first duty of love is to listen."
~ Paul Tillich

"And besides, when you love somebody, you mustn't listen to what they say. They say things to hurt you because they're afraid of being hurt themselves. You must look at their eyes...and feel their hearts!"
~ Tennessee Williams

"Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get - only with what you are expecting to give - which is everything."
~ Katharine Hepburn

"Love sucks. Sometimes it feels good. Sometimes it's just another way to bleed."
~ Laurell K Hamilton

"Love is a piano dropped from a fourth story window, and you were in the wrong place at the wrong time."
~ Ani Difranco

"Love is like racing across the frozen tundra on a snowmobile which flips over, trapping you underneath. At night, the ice-weasels come."
~ Matt Groening

"There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness."
~ Friedrich Nietzsche

"Love is something far more than desire for sexual intercourse; it is the principal means of escape from the loneliness which afflicts most men and women throughout the greater part of their lives."
~ Bertrand Russell

"I hold it true, whatever befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most; 'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
~ Alfred, Lord Tennyson

"Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs. Being purged a fire sparkling in lovers eyes, being vexed a sea nourished with lovers tears, What is it else? A madness most discreet, A choking gall and a perserving sweet."
~ William Shakespeare

"The one who loves you will make you weep."
~ Argentine Proverb

"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love."
~ Washington Irving

"Among men and women, those in love do not always announce themselves with declarations and vows. But they are the ones who weep when you're gone. Who miss you every single night, especially when the sky is so deep and beautiful, and the ground so very cold."
~ Alice Hoffman

"Love is a serious mental disease."
~ Plato

"Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly."
~ Sam Keen

"I have great hopes that we shall love each other all our lives as much as if we had never married at all."
~ Lord Byron

"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved -- loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves."
~ Victor Hugo

"It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations"
~ Kahlil Gibran

"It is better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for someone you are not."
~ Andre Gide

"Since love grows within you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul."
~ Saint Augustine

"Love is a better teacher than duty."
~ Albert Einstein

"The minute I heard my first love story I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along."
~ Jalal ad-Din Rumi

"This is the true measure of love: When we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, and that no one will ever love in the same way after us."
~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

"When I am with you, we stay up all night. When you're not here, I can't go to sleep. Praise God for those two insomnias! And the difference between them."
~ Jalal ad-Din Rumi

"The only abnormality is the incapacity to love."
~ Anais Nin

"This is one of the miracles of love: It gives a power of seeing through its own enchantments and yet not being disenchanted."
~ C.S. Lewis

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